{"id":68065,"date":"2026-04-16T12:43:39","date_gmt":"2026-04-16T10:43:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/uncategorized\/why-people-in-the-south-age-differently\/"},"modified":"2026-04-16T12:55:07","modified_gmt":"2026-04-16T10:55:07","slug":"why-people-in-the-south-age-differently","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/en\/mediterranean-lifestyle\/health-tips\/why-people-in-the-south-age-differently\/","title":{"rendered":"Why people in the South age differently"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>&#8230; and what we can learn from it. I give, from experience, some tips in advance <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-rank-math-toc-block\" id=\"rank-math-toc\"><h2>Inhoud:<\/h2><nav><ul><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#het-tempo-ligt-anders\">The pace is different<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#eten-zonder-regels-maar-met-verstand\">Eating without rules (but with reason)<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#beweging-zonder-sportcultuur\">Movement without sports culture<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#samen-leven-in-plaats-van-naast-elkaar\">Living together instead of side by side<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#buiten-zijn-als-vanzelfsprekendheid\">Being outdoors as a matter of course<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#tot-slot\">In conclusion<\/a><\/li><li class=\"\"><a href=\"#wat-kan-je-zelf-doen\">What can you do yourself?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Living in the south for more than 22 years now, I do see distinct differences from living in the north and the south&#8230; Growing old is done more peacefully here.<br>You see it everywhere. On a terrace in Frigiliana, on a bench in Nerja, or just on the street. People getting older (= read 65+) . They move, talk, laugh. They take their time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That has little to do with a single panacea. No superfood or special diet. It&#8217;s in how people live here &#8211; every day. Making time on the street to have a chat or while shopping (to the annoyance of all those who come after them \ud83d\ude09 )   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Say &#8220;<em><u>Spain<\/u><\/em>&#8221; then most think of &#8220;<em><u>ma\u00f1ana, ma\u00f1ana<\/u><\/em>&#8220;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Ma\u00f1ana, ma\u00f1ana&#8221; rarely just means &#8220;tomorrow&#8221; here.<br>Rather, it is a way of looking at time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No rush. No pressure to do everything right away. And that&#8217;s not out of laziness but just a different pace.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-1\" id=\"het-tempo-ligt-anders\" style=\"color:#30739d\"><strong>The pace is different<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In the South, everything runs just a fraction slower. And I don&#8217;t mean &#8220;lazy.&#8221; People often work more here than in the north. Do the math&#8230; supermarkets here are open from 9 am to 10 pm. Life (stores, offices, &#8230;) are open from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. and from 4 p.m. to &#8230; Some are open all the time, and depending on the season and the location, it is often the tourist who decides when to close.    <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The day begins quietly, lunch with family is a highlight, one takes a rest, and after the siesta, the day resumes. That rhythm is in everything: work, food, exercise. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Where we often run from appointment to appointment, here they still keep room for a chat, a coffee&#8230;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that makes a difference. Chronic stress is perhaps one of the biggest health problems of our time. Here, for me, that pressure seems less present.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-2\" id=\"eten-zonder-regels-maar-met-verstand\" style=\"color:#30739d\"><strong>Eating without rules (but with reason)<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mediterranean cuisine is often in the spotlight, but what strikes me most here: no one is obsessive about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People eat what&#8217;s there. Fresh, local, simple.<br>Olive oil, vegetables, fish, legumes. But also just bread, a dessert, a glass of wine.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now I do notice that the younger generation cannot maintain many of those traditions. Daily fresh and varied cooking today requires organization. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The difference is not in eating perfectly, but in <strong>consistently eating well enough<\/strong>. And that&#8217;s something we often forget. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eating is also not an individual activity here. Lunch is still Holy in many families. Grandparents and grandchildren gather around the table. Even the dad or brother who works in construction often eats at home.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And perhaps that&#8217;s at least as important as what&#8217;s on the plate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-3\" id=\"beweging-zonder-sportcultuur\" style=\"color:#30739d\"><strong>Movement without sports culture<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People here exercise a lot, but few &#8220;exercise&#8221; as we know it. Moms take the children to school in the morning and go for walks with a group of friends. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Doing errands on foot. Work in the garden. Go briefly to the village and back.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Just moving as part of life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that provides something we often miss:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not having to exercise, but just not sitting still either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-4\" id=\"samen-leven-in-plaats-van-naast-elkaar\" style=\"color:#30739d\"><strong>Living together instead of side by side<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Perhaps the biggest difference. In the South, you don&#8217;t live alone. You live together.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People talk, in the village I am always talked to on the street. The man where I buy my fruit asks how I am doing. Families come together. And that stays, even when you get older.Here grandparents often stay in their homes and the famillie provides day and night assistance or nursing care&#8230;.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Connection through conversation or a meal, belonging somewhere &#8230; these are not &#8220;extras,&#8221; they are basic needs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-5\" id=\"buiten-zijn-als-vanzelfsprekendheid\" style=\"color:#30739d\"><strong>Being outdoors as a matter of course<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Life largely takes place outside.<br>Light, air, sun &#8211; every day, or at least almost every day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Except during the hot summer months, then it seems everyone hides under a rock.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That does give you more energy and also creates more positivity. At least that has been my experience. In the morning you open the curtains and a blue sky appears &#8230; that&#8217;s all it takes to start your day off right.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-6\" id=\"tot-slot\" style=\"color:#30739d\"><strong>In conclusion<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Healthy aging in the South has no secret formula.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s not in one dish, one habit or one decision.<br>It&#8217;s in little things:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A slightly slower pace.<br>Eating without extremes.<br>Moving without pressure.<br>Living, eating, partying together<br>And above all, not wanting to control everything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Perhaps that is the biggest lesson.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not forcefully wanting to live even better,<br>but just &#8230; something simpler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7\" id=\"wat-kan-je-zelf-doen\" style=\"color:#30739d\"><strong>What can you do yourself?<\/strong><strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/koffie-op-terras-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Take time between your tasks.  \" class=\"wp-image-68059\" style=\"width:500px\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/koffie-op-terras-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/koffie-op-terras-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/koffie-op-terras-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/koffie-op-terras-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/koffie-op-terras-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/koffie-op-terras-831x554.jpg 831w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don&#8217;t have to live in the South to take something from it.<br>It&#8217;s not in the place, but in small choices you make every day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here are a few things you can try:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Start your day a little slower<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don&#8217;t immediately pick up your phone, read the news or make a to-do list.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Just taking a moment.<br>Coffee, daylight, silence or standing under the shower for a little longer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Have a healthy breakfast and take your time with it. This may require some organization beforehand, but it is important that you don&#8217;t run around frantically already during the first hours of the day. Don&#8217;t put your body into a stress mode right away  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In the South, the day rarely begins at full speed. Breakfast is often taken during the first hours of work. <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Eat as you live, not as a schedule says<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead of thinking in &#8220;good&#8221; or &#8220;bad,&#8221;<br>think in: what is available today?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A tomato with olive oil and pinch of salt can be enough.<br>Not everything has to be a &#8220;dish.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Buy fruits and vegetables from your local store and see what the seasons offer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Exercise without calling it &#8220;sport&#8221;<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let go of the idea that exercise must always be sport.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Go on foot where you can.<br>Take a detour.<br>Stay out a little longer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s just those little things that often make a difference.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Make time for real conversations<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don&#8217;t rush between your tasks but sit down, talk and listen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Get outside (even if it&#8217;s just for a moment)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A few minutes of sunlight or daylight<br>A breath of fresh air.<br><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>And what does &#8220;ma\u00f1ana, ma\u00f1ana&#8221; really mean here?<br \/>\nI wrote something about it &#8211; and you may recognize more than you think.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":68064,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","wpupg_custom_link":[],"wpupg_custom_link_behaviour":[],"wpupg_custom_link_nofollow":[],"wpupg_custom_image":[],"wpupg_custom_image_id":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[3084,3088],"tags":[9270,9271,9272,9273,9274,9275,9276,9277,9278],"class_list":["post-68065","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-health-tips","category-mediterranean-lifestyle","tag-mediterranean-cuisine-2","tag-conscious-living","tag-healthy-life","tag-growing-old-in-the-south","tag-elderly-in-the-south","tag-make-your-own-choices","tag-slower-life","tag-stress-mode","tag-famillie","cat-3084-id","cat-3088-id","has_thumb"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/68065","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=68065"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/68065\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":68069,"href":"https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/68065\/revisions\/68069"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/68064"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=68065"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=68065"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.secretosdelsur.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=68065"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}